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Old 25-04-2016, 10:15 PM   #516
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Default Re: Depression, Anxiety. Cancer diagnosis and how to handle it

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Originally Posted by Mercury Bullet View Post
How's your dad?

I had an uncle who was diagnosed with lung cancer early last year after countless scans trying to find out why he had suffered severe weight loss.

A patch in his lung was picked up on MRI.
After a few weeks he had a biopsy done on his lung...came back negative to cancer. Then a few months later he was xray'd and they said the lump had grown, it must be cancer, come back in for another biopsy.
So he did...negative result again.

This went on for months and months not knowing if he was going to live or die.

All I can advise is don't think it's the end of the world, or even cancer until you get some definitive pathology results.

The medical system put my uncle through hell last year.
He's fighting fit again now and does not have lung cancer.

I lost my mum 2 months ago to alzheimers.
All you can do is be there for them...it's hard to watch, but I'm just thankful I could be there and forever thankful she was my mum!
sorry merc, I did mean in the last that I thanked you in, to give you my condolences for mum, and a heartfelt understanding of your grief and sorrow of watching such a cruel disease take a loved ones life. may you and your family find the sstrength to keep your heads above the Blue
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